I
was spanked as a child multiple times. I
was not a well behaved child, I was always told I have an “attitude”
problem. My mom used to spank me when I
would whine or just not do what she told me.
Being spanked was a normal part of my childhood. I never really learned from the spanking, I
kept repeating whatever I did wrong. My
mom eventually figured out this was not working and stop spanking me.
I
think spanking is very acceptable and it’s by the discretion of the parents to
see how much they spank their children or if at all. But there is a thin line between spanking and
abusing your child. Child abuse is very
terrible and should never happen and spanking can lead to child abuse if a bad
parent gets too eager to spank their children.
Parents should spank
because it instills respect for authority.
With authority comes responsibility, these authority figures need to
learn how to spank effectively. They
need to instill the threat of spanking and try to reinforce the threat without
actually spanking. Parents that can
spank and then remind the children of the threat of spanking to make them act
respectful is the ideal way to discipline your child using corporal
punishment. Certain parents do not
understand that they spank their child too much and it turns into child abuse.
I think spanking is a
very good thing and when it is used the proper way children will behave the correct
way and respect authority. Spanking is a
tool that can be used properly to teach children how to behave. I think I will definitely spank my children
as a parent but only as a last resort and try and threaten spanking more than actually
doing it.